Summer is coming to an end, and the weather is starting to cool down. Kind of. Summer romances are dwindling down, and the thoughts of a serious boyfriend might come to mind. No one wants to be single around the holidays, right? Maybe, if you are needy. Then there are those who are just looking for cuddle buddies, snuggle friends, FWBs, whatever you want to call them. Unfortunately, finding someone to cuddle with is a lot harder than you think. And then when you find a potential somebody, they suck at cuddling. Here is our guide to cuddling.
Big Spoon & Little Spoon:
Being a big spoon is much harder than being the little spoon. Most little spoons are super needy, no offense. Being a little spoon and craving cuddling usually means you need to feel protected, secure, and validated. Being a big spoon and craving cuddling usually means you want to comfort someone, feel needed, and wanted. Being a big or little spoon really doesn’t designate if you are a top or bottom, but it helps if whoever is the big spoon is taller.
The nook is the place between your arm and chest, so basically the armpit area. But, it is a great place to cuddle. Unfortunately, if you are the nook it is less comfortable for you. If you are in the nook, then you are definitely satisfied. The great part about the nook is it is great position for cuddling and conversation. Unlike spooning, the nook allows eye contact.